March 29th, 2012

harry potter and the girl who came late to the party.

I was in junior high when the first Harry Potter novel was released.

At the time, I was reading a pile of obscure fantasy titles as well as a smattering of the classics, ranging from Little Women to Gone with the Wind. I liked taking the Accelerated Reader tests which validated my difficult reading choices with an external reward system — thanks public school! However, I openly eschewed Harry Potter.

My brother started reading the books because his friends were, but eventually abandoned the endeavor when he had to wait for the newer books to be released. Patience is not his virtue. I, on the other hand, was content to completely snub the series in favor of my high brow literature. I also didn’t watch any of the Harry Potter movies until I was in my 20′s.

I staunchly chose to go against the grain when making my literary selections, and I was vocal about it. I was very much a fan of not reading things like Harry Potter, Twilight and The DaVinci Code — basically anything on the best seller list was garbage. This decision led to my longstanding love affair with Jane Austen, F Scott Fitzgerald and every obscure British fantasy novel I could find. It did, however, also cause me to be a bit of a rebel among my similarly book inclined peers and thereby unaware of the simplicity in enjoying literature simply for the sake of it — not searching for overarching metaphors and plot themes.

I was seeking definition in my literature choices. I wanted people to know I wasn’t typical, I knew different things, I had opinions! In the end, this obsession with literary elite-ness didn’t get me anything aside from a BA in English. But I wouldn’t change my stubborn decisions, because in a way it opened a lot of doors for me — and now, I am sitting in my small bedroom, in South Korea, reading Harry Potter for the first time.

It’s only taken me 25 years to realize that life is too short to read bad books. If you aren’t enjoying a novel, stop reading it! Stop trudging doggedly through Moby Dick and pick up The Hunger Games.  Ahab will still be there when you feel strong enough to return (he also won’t judge you if you simply put him back on the shelf). But until then, get seamlessly lost in your imagination — the less effort it takes, the better. Don’t over-analyze, just be happy.

For the first time in a long time, I am just reading for fun; and I can’t recommend it enough!

  • http://www.rarg.co.nz elly_rarg

    Ha, I recgonise that behaviour with music, but I’ve never head of it with books! :) Welcome to the party, hey.

    • http://www.ageektragedy.net Abby

      Ironically, it has always irritated me when people acted snobbishly about music — but I didn’t recognize the same behavior in myself.

  • Kathryn

    Ha! I could have written this post. I have never read Harry Potter. I was abit of a book snob. I thought it made me look smart.
    But I did come to the conclusion, a couple of years ago, that I wasn’t going to continue reading a book I didn’t enjoy. There are so many out there!

    Are you on goodreads?

    I hope Korea is going well :)

    • http://www.ageektragedy.net Abby

      I was a book snob for similar reasons. Yes I am on Goodreads: here is my profile link

  • http://slidingdown.com Dan

    Harry Potter! :D

  • http://thelatepartygirls.com Lorraine

    This whole comment is going to seem weird, but I JUST posted on my own blog about people who won’t read things JUST BECAUSE it is popular. I mentioned Harry Potter because I read, and loved, the series late. God I loved it.

    Also, my blog is named “Late to the Party” so needless to say this entire thing tripped me out. :)

    I couldn’t agree more, though. Read for fun and the educational part of reading will always be there, in some way.

    • http://www.ageektragedy.net Abby

      I definitely just popped over to read your post. Thanks for sharing!

  • http://terra-bear.com terra

    I make it a rule when I have a lot of academic reading to do to include some just for fun books as well. I like getting lost in a story without having to dig to deep for the meanings. It’s nice.

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  • http://twitter.com/MeghanSaraK Meghan Sara Karre

    That’s why I love libraries! You can try any book for free, and you don’t have to feel guilty about not liking it after only five pages! I forced myself to read Anna Karenina – NEVER AGAIN! But I would never have discovered a love of Kurt Vonnegut were it not for trying to force myself to read new and different things! Seriously, Welcome to the Monkey House is AMAZING! Totally recommend if you like The Twilight Zone, or any sci-fi, short fiction!

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